Joy.

I needed a week to prepare for this post.

A week ago today, one of my best friends got married.  My heart has been so full since I arrived in town for her wedding; I had to take the time to properly thank God for the awesomeness that He has provided in sharing her with me.

Emilee and I met in college (I don't remember where or how; she might remember) and became fast friends.  We have a ton of private jokes and silly things we say to each other and we've been through a lot together.

Most of the girls in our group of friends found their future husbands at college and several got married right after we graduated.  Through all of the showers, parties, and weddings, Emilee was patient.  She dated some but didn't find that right guy during the time we were in college or the time soon after we graduated.  In the midst of it all, I don't remember her complaining or feeling left out.  She might have, but I don't recall it.

So standing up in her wedding, watching her come down the aisle with her parents...There was this look of pure joy on her face.  I've been to (and been in!) plenty of weddings, but this look of joy took the cake.  I could see so much in her face.

The wait was over.  They had found each other.

Through struggles and trials and frustration...

Through times of loneliness and uncertainty...

Through questions and concerns and hurts...

They were here, at this moment that God had prepared them for, to become one.

My eyes are filling with tears just remembering it.  I fell apart within seconds, naturally, and tried to wipe my eyes without being too obvious.  I'm not sure that I could be this happy for someone ever again.  What a reminder!

When things don't seem fair...Wait.

When things don't go my way...Wait.

When I'm not sure God's listening or has a plan...Wait.

Everything in His time, the perfect time.  How I needed that lesson on that day!

So congratulations to one of my best friends, Emilee Joy (did I not mention that's her middle name?  So fitting, right?).  I'm so glad you found your one; I'm so glad God provided.

I'm so honored and blessed to have stood with you on such a special day.  I love you.